She has kept her struggle with cancer private, but today, Wanda Sykes talked openly with Ellen about her recent experience with breast cancer. Watch their candid and inspiring conversation right here.
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She has kept her struggle with cancer private, but today, Wanda Sykes talked openly with Ellen about her recent experience with breast cancer. Watch their candid and inspiring conversation right here.
Next Story: Ellen's in a Soap Opera!
Congratulations to my cousin Wanda Sykes and my Girl Ellen!!!! I love you both!!!!
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Thanks Wanda and Ellen for covering this topic! The day after Wanda's surgery, I got my diagnosis of breast cancer! It was my and my oldest daughter's birthday, but I am glad that I have a positive thing to associate with a day that would otherwise always be remembered as 'the day I found out I have cancer'. I'm a mom of 4 and I won't let this beat the joy out of my life. My mom is a survivor herself! For now I am doing an intensive chemo regimen and I loved your show dedicated to those of us watching you every day as 'chemo buddies'. Keep doing what you do!!
Thank you ladies for getting the word out about breast cancer. I am 38 years old and I was in car accident totaling my car Sept last year, I got injured on my back and shoulder. My seatbelt went across my right breast leaving it really sore, I then noticed a huge lump. I didn't have insurance so it took a while for me to be able to go to the Dr. when I finally went in March this year my Dr. was really concerned, he had found 4 masses. I finally got assistance for breast and cervical cancer program, and it all went so fast after that! I have stage 3 IDC, it spread to my lymph nodes and chest wall, and my rib. In June I had double masectomy, I've had a hard time with infections. I have recieved 2 chemo treatments, and missed two as of right now. I have a infection on my port now, I am just waiting to get better so I can finish all my treatments,and get my 27 or so radiation treatments. I have 3 children, the youngest was 3 when diagnosed. It has been so hard on all of us. I am sick for a good two weeks after chemo, where I can't do anything at all. I am in bed or getting sick. I know I can beat this and know many more are going through the same. God Bless you all!
Hi Ellen..
wow,what a moment when u hear the words (you have breast cancer). yes ,i was diagnosed nov 3rd 09....my mom passed away of breast cancer,so right away there was no doubt ..it was gonna be double masectomy with reconstruction right away...
had the masectomy dec 10...with the left breast reconstructed right away,but could not do the right one cause i did not have enough fatty tissue with good blood flow...so i decided in march for implant ,but that got infected tried again 3 times,...did not work...so now i have a prostises..which is ok,but very annoying..
i could not have gone through this withough my wonderful daughters and husband. they took there savings and came to help me,cause i was havinga hard time with my infections ,and recouperating from the surgery...ii have the most wonderful daughters...they put Christmas aside and my daughter explained to my grandsons that Christmas was gonna be small .cause she needed to come help me...they understood ....awsome grandsons i have.my other daughter had just gone through a histerctomy but came to help me also...they are both living in maine..i live in florida...they have not come to enjoy florida since they came to help me...they just come to help mom... love my girls...i only wish i could afford to treat them to a trip that they could enjoy...but eh maybe some day.
im still having complications ....but hey i look at it with a positive attitude ..:) love life.
my husband is awsome .im so very bless..
thank you for letting me write to you...i love your show so much...
keep me laughing ...love you..muahhhh xo
jacqueline taormina..
Hi Ellen..
wow,what a moment when u hear the words (you have breast cancer). yes ,i was diagnosed nov 3rd 09....my mom passed away of breast cancer,so right away there was no doubt ..it was gonna be double masectomy with reconstruction right away...
had the masectomy dec 10...with the left breast reconstructed right away,but could not do the right one cause i did not have enough fatty tissue with good blood flow...so i decided in march for implant ,but that got infected tried again 3 times,...did not work...so now i have a prostises..which is ok,but very annoying..
i could not have gone through this withough my wonderful daughters and husband. they took there savings and came to help me,cause i was havinga hard time with my infections ,and recouperating from the surgery...ii have the most wonderful daughters...they put Christmas aside and my daughter explained to my grandsons that Christmas was gonna be small .cause she needed to come help me...they understood ....awsome grandsons i have.my other daughter had just gone through a histerctomy but came to help me also...they are both living in maine..i live in florida...they have not come to enjoy florida since they came to help me...they just come to help mom... love my girls...i only wish i could afford to treat them to a trip that they could enjoy...but eh maybe some day.
im still having complications with the right breast and the reconstructed one looks awful..but hey i look at it with a positive attitude and im here and i dont need them anyway...
my husband is also a strong devoted husband...im so very bless..
thank you for letting me write to you...i love your show so much...u make me laugh to run to the bathroom..ha..ha..
keep me laughing ...love you..muahhhh xo
Hi Ellen, I am a frequent watcher of your show and after reading these comments I just wanted to say I am a cancer survivor, this is my 6th year cancer free. I guest I was lucky because they caught my cancer in stage 1 and I had the kind that does not spread. After the cancer doctor recommended a full masectomy, my physician said since my lumps were so large , he felt he could get them all out. So I went with his advise and he did get them all and luckily I still have both of my own breast. I did not have to have chemo, or radiation, but took Tomaxifin every day for 5 years, and it worked. I am off the medicine, feeling fine and you cant even tell I ever had surgery.
Hi Ellen,
I'm 48 and a breast cancer survior. In 2008 I had a lumpectomy with 6 and half weeks of radiation. Doing great now and happy to be alive.
Laugh, Dance and be kind!
Reanee Dunlap
Sorry, continuation of my earlier posting. In July 2010 I tested positive for the BRCA 1 gene and after speaking to my oncologist decided to have prophylactic surgery (because as she put it, it wasn't a matter of IF I got breast cancer but simply WHEN). In October 2010 I had a prohylactic hysterectomy, and decided to have a prophylactic bilateral mastectomy in January 2011 (one month after retiring as a high school teacher for the past 39 years). A week after my mastectomy my doctor called to say I had made the right decision as they found DCIS (ductal carcinoma in-situ) in my left breast (just like Wanda's and my Dad). Only a few months earlier I had had both a mammogram and an MRI and neither showed anything suspicious.
I am now in the midst of reconstructive surgery and hopefully will have my last surgery in November.
My point is the more we talk about this disease and people like Wanda and Christina Applegate get the message out to mainstream America, the more educated and informed women (and men) will be. Bless you Ellen and Wanda for keeping me laughing and getting out life-saving information.
Ellen...just watched your show with with Wanda Sykes(thank goodness for PVR). I was an otherwise healthy 45 year old married woman with 2 daughters when I found a lump in my left breast. A mammogram showed I had not only cancer in that breast, but the right as well. I had a bilateral mastectomy in May 2010, Chemotherapy and radiation followed, and I am now returning to work. The humour that Wanda has concerning this disease is something I very much appreciate, and I am so glad I saw your show! Thank you, thank you for the laughs you have given me over the last 18 months...
Hi Ellen and Wanda, just happened to catch your
show with Wanda (one funny lady) and tuned in.
Listening to Wanda speak of her experience was almost like hearing my story.
In April of 2010 my 87 year old FATHER was diagnosed with breast cancer in his left breast. He had that breast and some lymph nodes removed. Because he had survived mouth cancer and had gone through radiation the previoius year he decided not to undergo any further radiation. However, he does take Aromacin daily.He also tested positive for the BRCA 1 gene.
Because breast cancer is so uncommon in men his oncologist suggested that my two sisters and I get tested as well. One sister chose not to be tested and my youngest sister tested negative. I tested positive for BRCA 1.
Hi Ellen and Wanda,
My coworker and friend told me about how Wanda was going to be on the show. I missed it but am so glad for technology so that I can watch it on your show's website. I had a screening mammogram just before I left for vacation. The radiologist called and asked me to come in so that more enhanced images can be made. I told them that I was leaving for vacation the next day. I came home @ the end of August from an awesome 3 week vacation visiting many friends and family in Chicago and then going on a side trip with friends to San Francisco to celebrate our 20th year since graduating from nursing school. The following week I had to go in for a repeat mammo and by that Friday I was having a biopsy done of my left breast. The following Tuesday I was diagnosed with both invasive and non-invasive ductal carcinoma. For 10 days, I was in a fog... going to tests, doctor's appts and trying not to break down crying. I have decided to go with double mastectomy. More for piece of mind...cannot imagine having mammos more frequently and waiting for another shoe to drop. Unlike Wanda, I was told that mastectomy did not assure that I would be 100% cancer free. I was told that my chances for cancer to reoccur is 4%. I have yet to schedule my surgery date. Thanks to both of you for talking about this and since Breast Cancer Awareness month starting this weekend, how appropriate. I know I will survive!
Rona Pankey
Ellen, so glad to hear your ok. Scary though, huh? That must have been a mighty big cat sitting on your chest; and to think, there was two of them???
I watched your interview with Wanda Sykes and it gave me "cold chill bumps" for the way she openly talked about her brush with breast cancer and how she handled it. I think the two of you ladies are the best for getting the word out to other women who may not know they can be in danger.
The reason it touched home so much with me is because my own breasts were a dense mass of fibrocystic cells. I regularly did my own breast examination because I was the only one who could tell which lumps were normal and which ones were abnormal. At the age of 39 I found a lump that was abnormal, went to the doctor, he ordered a mammo and they found spots in both breasts that needed to be biopsied.
Here is where I must tell you how this surgeon handled telling me this news after the initial exam, before I had even had the mammo. He had examined me, told me he was ordering a mammo, told me I could get re-dressed and left the room. As I was getting dressed the doctor tapped on the door, stuck his head in and said, "by the way Ms. Davis, I recommend you have both breasts stripped and implants put in", as if he was telling me to take an aspirin for a headache! Looking back now, I do believe I went into light shock and should never have been allowed to drive when I left his clinic in tears.
I had another surgeon do the biopsy and after the initial meeting with him, he said it was a must if I could find out about my mother's family and any breast cancer history.
Sounds simple, right? Wrong. My mom and dad divorced when I was 2 years old and my grandparents on my dad's side raised my brother, sister and I. I had only seen my mother 2 times in my entire life to remember what she looked like and I certainly didn't know anything about her or her family. However, I did know where she lived and I called information and got her phone number. It only took me two and a half hours to work up the courage to call her, after all, what was I going to say? "Hi, this is Sandy, your daughter". Finally call made and she said no, no cancer in her or her family. (I found out about 5 years ago that she had breast cancer at that time and she passed away in May 2010 because that cancer had spread all over her body.) I don't know why she wouldn't tell me but, she didn't.
Back to my biopsies. Had biopsy of each breast and they found atypical cells, which isn't cancer but, it can be cancer producing if left alone. This surgeon also recommended removal and implants. Six months later I found another lump, more biopsies, another recommendation of breast removal and implants and a referral to a breast specialist at Baylor University in Dallas, TX.
After seeing five specialists, all recommending the same thing, and telling me it will continue to be a series of biopsies and they felt it was only a matter of time until it would be cancer; I had my breasts stripped and implants put in 11/88 at the age of 42.
It did take a lot of courage because I was a single mother raising two son's, and had been single for 16 years. I now feel it was the best decision I could have ever made; especially after finding out that my own mother had breast cancer.
I'm not telling you about my personal life for any other reason other than to help you understand it was a very difficult decision to make about breast removal and implants when your a single woman. My brother, sister and I had a wonderful, loving life raised by our grandparents on a farm.
Thank you Ellen and Wanda for what you did and are doing for every woman in your audiences. You both are truly are amazing.
Aloha Wanda! I live on Maui and we were at your show. You are one remarkable woman to come out and entertain us so soon after your surgery. I can only hope that you got some restorative relaxation time in--the kind that only Maui can provide! Mahalo nui loa from the bottom of our hearts!
you are the best ellen your! you are makimg happy a lot of people you are the best keep it up non stopp luck your hole life!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God Bless you Ellen for sharing that story,Because Its no secret when God restore and give you a second chance with life,I so glad I had my second chance,It lets you know Pink is power..xoxo
Congrats to Wande for coming on Ellen and telling everyone about her recent bilater breast removal. I, too, have DCIS, but since it is considered a 0 stage, my Oncologist suggested I take Tamoxifen for 5 years. So in January I finally ended the daily pill and am so glad to have it behind me. Now I pray I don't get cancer, because I would opt to have both removed and go thru the recovery ONCE.
Wanda, you are a hoot, and I loved you on The New Adventures of Old Christine with Julia Louis-Dreyfus. Keep your chin up, and congrats on having found your cancer early and removing it as you did.
Way to go, Wanda! Attitude and support are key!! Early detection through annual screenings is vital. Mine was caught early and I only had a lumpectomy, radiation and am now in year two of a 5 year tamoxifen regimen. I WILL SURVIVE AND YOU WILL TOO!!!
Hi Ellen,
I just heard your interview with Wanda Sykes. I love her sense of humor! I think she would enjoy my book, Most of Me: Surviving My Medical Meltdown. It's my funny and imaginative memoir about me and my diseases (breast cancer and parkinson's).
http://www.dmpibooks.com/author/robyn-michelle-levy
Thanks,
Robyn
Robyn Michele Levy
www.robynlevygallery.wordpress.com
http://www.youtube.com/user/RobynMicheleLevy
info@robynlevy.ca
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Hi Ellen
I had a mammogram June 16,and on August 16, had a partial mastectomy. As soon as I got the pathology report, I sent an email to everyone in my address book to ask them to please get a mammogram. Prior to my biopsy, the surgeon tried to find the lump that showed on the mammogram, and he could not feel it, even though he knew exactly where it was. Since sending the email, I have heard from many women, some I do not know, that they have booked appointments. So, I am posting this to ask anyone reading this who is over 40, to please get a mammogram. It saved by life, as my cancer was invasive, is now removed, and I start radiation soon to prevent it coming back. 15 minutes every two years is not an onerous thing.
Posted by Ingrid | October 6, 2011 11:07 PM