Ok, I saw the repeat of Ellen scaring Steve Carrel...He said that when you scare someone you catch their "essence". Well i will share an embarressing story of me showing my "essence". Early in life my father taught me some self-protection techniques and would quiz me on them daily. Well, fast forward now....my husband knowing that i am easily startled tried to play it safe and walked up to me and placed a hand on my back as I was vaccuming. I whirled around and caught his eyes wide in shock! In slow motion I moved my eyes down to what I have done to him...In my horror I had both of his tiny nipples in the grasp of my hands! Sorry Daddy.