At some point, we started adding "Right?" at the end of our sentences. People don't have time for answers anymore. It's a weird speaking trend. We go through different speaking trends. Remember when the movie "When Harry Met Sally" came out, people started saying "Hello?" like Billy Crystal did? "I asked for non-fat milk! Hello?" It was really just a way to call someone stupid disguised as a friendly greeting. "Hello?" "Oh, hello there! How are you?" After "Valley Girl" came out, people started using the word "like" in, like, every sentence. But we still say "like," like all the time. We seem to like it. Do you know what I mean? That's another one, "Do you know what I mean?" People say it all the time at the end of a sentence. But it's perfectly clear what they say. "I'm really hungry, do you know what I mean?" I'm not sure. You mean food go in mouth, then to tummy and make you full? That kind of hungry? The newest one I've noticed is people saying, "yes" and "no" in a way where they mean the same thing... or nothing at all. They're putting "Or no?" at the end of a question. Have you noticed that... or no? Like they'll say, "Are you going to the store, or no?" Give me a chance. I can come up with the alternative to "yes" all by myself. I have my own show, for god's sake.
















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Hi Ellen. Here's another one for you. I was telling this friend of mine "you know" that we were going out to a nice restaurant "you know".....
Ever notice how often "you know" gets used when someone is talking? I used to use it, till my senior year in high school, when in speech class, for our first speech, we were to just get up and talk about ourselves. The purpose of the exercise was that any time we used "you know" or "umm" during our speech, a coin would drop into a can, by the teacher. It really taught me something, and it also caused me to start listening for it, when others are talking. Can be quite distracting, if they are using it after every couple of words while they are talking. You soon lose what they are saying, except for counting how many times they say "you know" while talking to you.
Posted by Martha | May 7, 2008 11:27 AM