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Behold, You are not alone in your observations. Im sure you well know that this has been an issue from the beginning. The point has been made that this is a site sponsored by Ellen so what would you expect. The important issue is that we remain open mined and be willing to do a little work on finding out the truth. I am a rescuer as well as an adopter so I can see the issue from both sides. I also will not tolerate being abused but am willing to discuss the issues with anyone who is willing to remain civil. I personally think that Marina initially wanted to enforce her contract as per her rights BUT since she had not followed her own policy from the beginning of the adoption, things got a little out of control. There was no need for her to lie to Cheryl and say she was coming to do a home visit and then snatch up Iggy right then and there. Yes, I believe that this was set in motion by Ellens lack of attention to what Portia signed and her lack of response once she found out she made a mistake. But let's face it, there was no reason for things to get so out of control. Regardless of who said what first, each party had a responsibility and both parties failed. An emotional plee on an entertainment program was not appropriate and Marina's continued appearances on talk programs is classless. So where do we go from here?

Has anyone noticed the paralleling treatment of The Marina defenders compared with how Marina herself has been treated? The Marina naysayers have defended Ellen’s actions as honorable and provoked. They omit her public outcry and instead blame Marina for making her do it. Just as they omit their own mistreatment of Marina Bloggers and claim again that their actions were provoked while the people here who have agued on Marina’s behalf have been coined “Creators of this Problem.”

Does anyone else find this compelling?

Ok Folks, here is my first response from a rescue located here in PA. I have copied and pasted as it was written only removing my own name. I used a family member as an example of a potential new home.


I do agree with the policy that the group that Ellen got her dog from. However, we would have handled it differently. We would have contacted your sister and if we thought that was a suitable home, we would let her take the dog. We would not ask for another donation for the dog either. The reason that we have that clause in the contract is to protect the dog. We don't want it ending up in a bad home or a shelter. We take responsibility for the dog from life.
You do have ownership of the dog until you can't or won't keep it any longer. That is when ownership comes into play for the rescue. We are basically second in line after you.
I hope I answered your questions.
Beth

I just finished e mailing 2 rescues to poll them to see what their position is on the contract issue and the rights of the adopter to make decisions for their own dog. Cant wait to see what they have to say. Im going to ask a few other too. Ill let everybody know as soon as I hear something.

Foster Mon & Non De Plume:

Thank you for the thoughtful replies. It's refreshing to get something that isn't an attack for a change.

Plume, you may recall what I said about a "level playing field." I've never been afraid to go head-to-head with the two you-know-who, but not when they control a forum. It would be even more one-sided than here. Karen has bashed Marina many times as has Jones, whether you agree or not (Nazis, remember?). Yes I have hit a bit below the belt but sometimes you fight fire with fire.

It gets tiresome with bloggers like Alan Smithee saying I never addressed points when I believe I have done so until I was blue in the face. I have been one of the few who have directly taken on the "legal" issue, stating they are still legal in the eyes of the IRS, they forgot to file a simple name update to the State of California which could have been easily remedied, said that there is an honor to signing a contract and weaseling out of it because it's not "legal" is dishonorable, stated they still would probably win in a court of law, that nothing is declared illegal until actually determined in a court of law and that there probably never will be a legal challenge because Ellen's walked away from it. Nor has anybody addressed Marina's exemplary history of dog rescue which Marina-haters don't want to hear anyway.

All these words no longer amount to a hill of beans. Everybody's talking and nobody's listening over a totally dead issue. I'm going to try once again to tear away from it. It's just hard to fight one's curiosity and not access this site and get sucked in again. But I'll try again. Besides, my real life is getting extremely busy lately.

So my hopefully final response to everybody is
"whatever."

Bob G, Perhaps you remeber when I used to post as well. I stated my opinions and like you, was often attacked and challenged for those views. I dont really post anymore as the conversations often repeat themselves and the insults never stop. I am no longer attacked for my views but I dont feel that what I have to say matters anyway. I decided to go to the site that is about animal rights and post there. Since it is new there arent many people yet, but I think it could turn out to be a good thing. Im sure they will be debates but it isnt about Ellen and Iggy anymore. There are issues like animlal abuse and a place for wonderful OR sad adoption stories. I am going to give it a chance regadless of who may be the moderator. If the rules are applied fairly, there should be non of this nonsense there. I have agreed with a lot of what you have said and I hope you will consider coming and saying your peace there. I would like to discuss the issues with you as I think you care a lot about animals and probably have some great suggestions to offer about rescue. If you arent confortable yet, I would be willing to return here temporarily to discuss rescue issues with you.

Bob g,

You stated that you would not go to this forum as you think its run by Karen who posted here at one time. And you have claimed her posts as of late to be hate filled. I beg to differ with you there sir.

Ive seen her past posts get a little nasty, but not as nasty as yours. I saw her coming here to support Ellen , not to bash Marina. But point out facts that she saw them.

I have no idea if this forum is run by her, nor does it make a difference to me. And it really shouldnt matter to you either, unless you dont want to because you cant get the bad taste out of your mouth for her personally.

Personally I think whoever this Karen is had a good idea and ran with it. Unlike others here who choose to fight over the issues at hand and take personal attacks on other, and do nothing but throw insults at one another on Ellens blog.

And also your comment about jones being on there , thats why you dont want to go there and debate this issue. I see that as being a little childish, dont you. Its like " oh no jones is there , im not going there, I dont want to talk to him, he's mean mommy". So what if jones is there, if you can keep a civil tongue , then maybe you could see the some things you have in common and maybe become good advosaries from this whole experience.

Its your choice , im just pointing out some things I see both in you and Aces.

I do hope that you change your mind as I would love to see your views on some of the other issues that have been brought there and posted by other registered members.

I have not , as of yet , posted anything there. I have not had the time. I will however do so, if you care to read my posted comments.

If not I wish you good luck here, with peace love and harmony. I shall not be posting here again, as it is not needed.

Peace out

Bob G,
Once again you claim the high road falsely.
I made a pointed statement on this board yesterday and listed many points, none of which you have responded to.

Mr/Ms Jones defended my position, and even attempted to explain my allegory to the simple minded so-called "troll" known currently as Aces, and continued to call you out with no response. As of this moment, you whine and claim the victim, and again I remind the readers here that,it is you, Bob G, who repeatedly takes cheap shots and attempts to discredit those who disagree with you by claiming they do not know what they are talking about, rather than responding to the actual arguments.
You are still spouting lies, Bob G, since you make false claims here and ignore such facts such as it is you who continues to sustain and escalate hostilities. This much maligned jones et al has only responded to your hostile attacks, and never initiated them as far as I have seen, but has been blindsided by you and others repeatedly.
Sounds like you wish to rule the roost and dish it out but retreat and whimper and claim the victim when the tables are turned,
You likened two of your opponents to violent felons, Bob G, on this blog. This is something I have not seen done to you, yet you claim to be the injured party.
You now claim that Mr/Ms jones should respond to your arguments, when it is appears that this individual is no longer posting. It is also apparent that he/she has already rebutted your position, and your silence has been deafening. You also refuse to repeat your arguments just as you refuse when jones and others repeat theirs and you are nowhere in sight. Again, you have failed to respond to my post yesterday, and I will not repeat it so you can ignore it again.

Yes, Bob G, you never addressed a single point I raised, since you only discuss the well chosen points that support your prejudiced and mean spirited vindictave position in this matter. You disgust me by talking out of both sides of your face.

There are many that I know that share my position who refuse to comment in this format thanks to polluters like you.
Most of the associates I refer to argue for a living, as I have done, and will not willingly engage at the level that you and other foul mouthed fools maintain on this forum which ironically is provided by the Ellen TV show.
The name changing "troll" currently known as "Aces" is obviously an unbalanced and impaired individual and gets a pass.
But you, Bob G appear to intentionally throw out red herring issues while deftly avoiding the actual issues you apparently have no answer for.
Your actions are despicable, when you continue to assault those embracing all sides and seeking debate and resolution in this matter which, after all, is all about the welfare of a young puppy. I see that my post regarding ethical arguments was re-posted anonymously yesterday. Perhaps you might benefit from this brief tutorial, Bob G, if you have any interest at all in fair and productive debate. Thus far, it appears you have no interest whatsoever in such fair and honorable interaction, but rather that you come here to disseminate bitterness and half-truths.
Enjoy your one sided responses, I will be back at work and shall not be here to suffer the slings and arrows of your vitriolic onslaught.

My challange to you yesterday remains unanswered, Bob G.
If you were not a cowardly prevaricator, you most certainly would have offered a rebuttal by now, as any sincere gentleman would have done.

Nom De Plume:

To begin, except for a brief foray as Sigmund which I owned up to, my name has never changed on this site. I came early to this site to balance the overwhelmingly negative views toward Marina. I felt I had just as much right to my views as anyone, and if the Ellen people didn't like it, they could ban me. Even Mr. Jones and Karen would have to admit that I have been very courteous and thoughtful at times to them.

Lately I'm sick and tired of the hateful and nasty responses, many of them totally ignoring the points I made, and then accusing me of not seeing the other side. They were nasty to me so I have gotten nasty too, but I never descended into name-calling like Jones who initially called me an SOB. Yes, I've gotten personal in-so-far as picking apart their arguments and throwing their comments back in their faces. They can dish it out, but they can't take it. They went ballistic when I suggested their hate-filled comments were in the same league as those who made death threats.

So now you challenge me to go to this other site. If I choose not to, you've already characterized me as not a fair debater on an equal playing field. So I took a look at this site, and the first name I came across was "Karen." If this moderator is the same "Karen aka newest Ellen fan" that has posted here, then I do not consider it an equal playing field. For some time now, she has posted some of the nastiest, hate-filled remarks of anyone at this site, and that was even when I was arguing this courteously. Karen has purported herself to be an expert in legal matters and personal matters regarding Marina using half-researched factoids and negative characterizations against Marina---anything to twist the truth and support Karen's agenda. She has been vicious to those that disagreed, and I don't mean to just the moronic crazies that have posted. If she is that site's moderator and Mr. flying monkey Jones posts there, then there is no hope for a reasoned debate. The site is a sham.

Thanks, but no thanks.

Ok Aces and Bob,

Care to take this discussion somewhere where your name cant be changed so easily? Where the conduct that you both have shown recently is not allowed. And has many more topics other than just Iggy and Ellen.

If so I request your presence at the said forum, that jones provided to this blog and its patrons.

If you choose not to , that is your right and your choice. But to me it just means that you do not wish to debate this fairly and on an equal playing field.

And that is fine with me. My moniker on there is the moniker I use here, with the exceptions of spaces.

Hope to see you there

Peace out

Aces:

You're talking to brick walls. Considered reasoning won't work. That's because the Marina Bashers and Ellen lovers are one and the same. Ellen can do no wrong, so it must be Marina's fault. Anybody who disagrees is automatically an Ellen hater/Marina lover.

Just to quote the top of this column:
"Ellen thanks her fans for all their sympathy, urges restraint, and hopes for a happy outcome."
Not if they can help it!

By the way folks, has anybody put their money where their mouth is and sued to get Iggy back? Hmmm? Talk is cheap.

Nom de Plume:

I would love for you to prove to me that I have been here attacking Ellen Supporters. That is such hogwash and its insulting. Ellen supporters are not my attention, Marina bashers have been. I actually like Ellen, and I would bet the farm on the fact that she is not grateful to those who use her name in their efforts towards insulting, attacking, and degrading other people regardless if they can see Marina's position.

I have zero ill feelings towards you except that I am bothered that you have accused me of things that are not true.

My intentions have been that I did not think it was appropriate to brand Marina a criminal with PURE SPECULATION. When I have stated this to Jones he has insulted very personally without any real substance. The source of these said facts are relevant to these claims. And if all these accusations that have been tossed around this forum are based on Internet sites; I find that to be distasteful to say the least. I have never claimed to know more than I know. I have simply conserved my branding to the ACTUAL FACTS that we do know.

Jones:
You have shown your true colors in your last blogs, but ultimately you're tiresome. If you ever cared to take the time to read, I have pointedly addressed your legal points many times over. I'm not writing them again. Go back and read, then return to discuss it with me.

Nom de Plume:

I don't know who you think I am, but I have NEVER COMMENTED ON ELLEN and whether or not she should be adopting animals. The only comment I have ever made about her is my disproval for taking this public. An action I am sure she herself now regrets. Perhaps a little condescention has been warranted your way as you have now twice directly made inaccurate claims about me.

Simply because Jones has commented about Marina and compassion, he has equally times insulted her with slants like tilted and dog napper and countless others that I could retrieve if you wanted. Look no further than his Nazi remarks. If you are a genuine person—and when I stated the peace comment I was being serious as it came with a warning to stop speaking my opinions here—than how do you fail to see the malarkey that has been going on here?

You seem quite sure of my guilt and already you have misrepresented me twice. Jones has not been descent towards Marina or anyone who has cared to defend her. The few comments he has made about peace and forgiveness do not dismiss the countless other degrading and quite inappropriate claims and insults he has made.

Ace, or whoever you have been in the past,

There you go again with your condescention. And I really dont have time to go back to where you started insulting jones and other Ellen supporters and post it on here.

You say that you have never said anything against Ellen on this blog. I beg to differ with you. I believe that you made some comments about how she should never adopt animals as she always gives them away. Those were not your exact words , but what you commented was implied.

And your attacks on jones were not ever warranted as he stated more than once he never wished Marina any harm. He felt sorry for her, the way I read his posts. He felt sorry that she felt she had to do what she did. And illegally I might add. I dont know if her actions were legal or not. Nor does that matter to me in this situation.

And your attitude about my posting peace was childish, to say the least. Im sure that your a very nice person. But you need to learn the art of debate. Stick to the topic without being emotional. That is my tip for you young lady.

I wish you love , peace and harmony. And pray some day you become less skeptical of others intentions.

Peace out

Nom de plume:

If you are going to try and site me than try being accurate. I have never posted as Longfellow and I have changed my name as many others have. If you are truly a new person and not just another Jones reincarnate, than look closely at where you accuse me of name-calling and throwing stones.

Tell me whom I have attacked? Tell me where I opened fire on a person who had not called me an insidious name?

For the most part I have only had bad interactions with this Jones, as countless others I have witnessed. This is a forum to discuss the Iggy situation not to discuss Ellen and her positition only. That is false. Would you have this be a place where one person is needlessly attacked by several like-minded people without ever having a conflicting opinion be expressed? Is this a forum only for those who see things in Ellen's light? Show me where that is stated. Would you rather this space be an open ambush on Marina?

This is an OPEN SPACE and I only began posting here after witnessing the unwarranted attacks on Marina and her character. I was insulted very quickly in my initial posts. If you feel like investigating than be my guest, but I assure you by the time post it showed up, the insults had long been thrown.

Your words on peace seem like a punch line more than an actual sentiment. Does peace mean to you so long as everyone agrees with you? Do you know what and where I have researched before you make your accusations? Does that matter to you or are you permitted to say what ever you wish without proper knowledge?

That post was not a whine but a statement of fact. If you want to show Ellen respect than try being honest. Ellen has dropped this issue, yet her so-claimed-fans here have picked up the ball and have tried any possible way to continue the abuse on Marina. I have not thrown one ill word in Ellen’s direction. Clarifying her mistakes is not the same as insulting her. A distinction I have not seen by many people here including you.

What I don't understand is why her "so-claimed-fans" do not follow her lead and demonstrate Ellen’s same resolve.

For the record also,

Aces aka post it aka Longfellow aka as many other names. Has for the record refused to read what was posted as facts, or even checked out those facts through any method. Be it internet or the law library. She chooses to be ignorant of these facts stated and only chooses to be stubborn and closed minded.

I have seen her make condescending remarks to anyone who does not agree with her opinions about this horrible situation. Not to mention the insults she chose to use in the beginning before she was being insulted herself.

She brought this upon herself and continues to whine about it. Not unlike some others who have no idea about how the internet works. Feelings on the internet need to be put aside, so that educated , civil debates can be stated clearly and precisely. Not hatefully and take personal attacks on one another as she has done herself.

All I ask is for all readers to read all posts carefully and make your own decisions.

As this is the first time ive ever posted here, I have read every comment posted. I saw a lot of childish behaviour, and that is not nessasary on this blog.

This is Ellens blog, and should be treated with respect. If you dont agree with Ellen , then go to another blog that does not support what she did and talk about it there. There are plenty of them out there. Just as there are blogs supporting Ellens decision in this situation.

I checked the forum that jones posted on the doggone blog, and since I support Ellen myself think that its a good forum. It has lots more interesting places to post than Ellens blog pages.

This is my one and only post and I say this with all the love and peace I have in my heart. Make love not war. It makes the world a much better place to live.

Peace out

For the Record:

This person called Jones has been insulting towards several people here. He points fingers at everyone here, but himself.

Your shenanigan’s have been very deliberate and beyond response. Jones you insult people personally when they express their own opinions. You call people names because they choose to not grant you unbridle acceptance for what you declare as FACT that has been seized from the Internet—which people should not.

Jones I left this blog for a week. When I returned you were still insulting me and I hadn't even posted in over four days. Even among your most rude behavior, like referring to me as a pathetic creature, I still refrained from calling you names. You, my sorely friend, should be taking your own advice very seriously and possibly seek council. Maybe your diet is insufficient. I am willing to accept that by now, as I have never met a more duplicitous character.

Lovely,

I am happy there will be forgiveness for you; you will need it I am sure.

Aces imitating Jones:

"You are a dumb twit, but I forgive you for making me endlessly insult you. You have a problem, but little ol' me, I just come here to play nice and everyone picks on me. I never insult unless provoked...its every one else's fault, but not me."
LOL-stitches

Little did he know that he has always been the meanest one of all.


Happiness is calling a true bully—a bully—right to his face!

there once was a rescue for mutts
some moms with their heads up their butts
they acted like nazis
and loved paparazzis
but ended up hiding in huts

Aces, the phrase is:
"Don't let the screen door hit ya where the good Lord split ya."
Maybe when you are culling material from my previous posts you should write these things down.

But son't worry about being alone, little bear, I know you will miss me but I will wioll be with you every night in your dreams. Or rather, I will be with you in your nightmares when you close your eyes, you sorry, pathetic twit. Me and Freddy Krueger, and all the objects of your hatred come home to roost.
I know you just have to have the last word, that you live for this, but remember there is love and forgiveness for all those who seek it, my sorry friend.

We are not responsible for our disease, but we ARE responsible for our recovery.

Magic is calling something by its true name.


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